Friday, March 9, 2012

You two can get away to Lisbon


If want to get away but can't decide on medieval mystery or slick modern shopping why not head to Lisbon, capital city of Portugal? Situated on Europe's Atlantic coast, Lisbon has been the home port of explorers for hundreds of years but still remains an undiscovered treasure of a city, less than two and a half hours by plane from London.



When to go

Whatever the time of year, the weather in Lisbon is always likely to be warmer and sunnier than the UK. Major sites and tourist attractions, including art galleries and museums, are open all year round, but timing a visit to coincide with one of Lisbon's many religious or cultural festivals, will add extra colour and variety to a trip. Highlights include:

  • The Festa de Santo António, 12 to 13 June
Saint Anthony was born in Lisbon in 1195 and was revered in his lifetime for his compassion and his help with matchmaking and relationships. This two day feast celebrates his legacy with parades, music, dancing and fireworks, plus lots of wine and grilled sardines. Even today single women pray for Saint Anthony's help to find husbands, and newly-weds dedicate gifts in his honour.

  • Festa do Vinho, first fortnight in November
Winter visitors may find the Festival do Vinho more heart-warming. The year's young wine is toasted and drunk in vast quantities, music and folk dancing is plentiful, and handicrafts are on sale for some early Christmas shopping.



Where to stay

With a long history of hospitality to visitors, Lisbon offers a range of accommodation options within easy walking distance of the main attractions. For a short stay, visitors can splash out on the old-fashioned grandeur of the Hotel Metropole overlooking the fountains of Rossio Square.

For a short or longer term budget option, why not consider a local home stay? Shared apartment rentals in Lisbon can be booked through wimdu.co.uk, an online service putting city visitors in touch with locals offering quality-checked spare rooms to rent out. It's a great option for visitors wanting to make the most of local knowledge to enhance their stay.



What to do

While there are many options on a longer stay, for a short stay there are certain sites and activities that should be on everyone's Lisbon to do list.

The UNESCO world heritage site at Belém is approximately six kilometres west of the centre, and is worth the small effort to get there. The area is important as the place from which Vasco da Gama set sail in 1497 on his two year voyage to discover the sea route to India, thereby changing the balance of world economic and political power. The monastery built to celebrate his achievements is only one highlight of this area. At opposing ends of the human timescale, there are also the National Museum of Archaeology and the Museum of Design.

For those with a sense of irony, check out the We Hate Tourism tours.


What to eat and drink

Eating and drinking in Lisbon is what many people come to do. Making the best of its coastal location, seafood is plentiful. The influence of Indian and African spices and French cuisine can also be can also be found in many of the indoor and outdoor restaurants. So even if you have a holiday apartment to yourselves, make sure you venture out for some local dining.

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Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Wonderbra Men

March 8th is International Women’s Day. A public holiday in some countries, it is a great opportunity to reflect on how much you respect, appreciate, value and treasure the women in your life.
 

Female friends
Your female friends are very special whether you are a man or a woman. Men say their female friends often fulfill a more emotional role in their lives than their male mates. Not being romantically involved means that, with female friends, men often feel more able to let down their macho facade and show their vulnerability. Women are generally good listeners and can provide a valuable source of emotional support – especially in the area of relationships – while still being up for a laugh. 

 

 

 Mothers
It often isn’t until you lose your mum that you realise how special and unique your relationship with her is. It is a tricky role being a mum, especially to a son, because you naturally want the very best for your boy – and unfortunately most women leave something to be desired when viewed through the eyes of a protective mother. If your mum is very critical of your choice of women remember she only wants the best for you but she may not be the best judge of what that is – you are. 

As well as International Women’s Day, March also hosts Mothers Day on the 18th. Use this opportunity to show your mum how much she means to you.

 

 

 

Sisters
If you are lucky enough to have a sister you will know that it can be a highly emotive, volatile relationship, with sibling rivalry and competitiveness coupled with fierce loyalty and a sense of permanence – your sister will always be your sister even if you fall out and don’t talk for a while. Sisters are the ones who really understand when you talk about your past and your parents and can challenge you if they think your perception is off. Sisters know and appreciate you in ways no other women in your life ever will. They are great people to ask when you need a female perspective on your online dating profile or a new match – they won’t pull the punches but they might be less likely to be possessive of you than your close female friends.

 

 

Female colleagues
Women have different energies, skills and aptitudes to men and as such are more likely to be able to work alongside you than against you in a competitive way, appreciate the differences. 

 

Author Kathy Lette once said: “It's good to remember that women are each other's human Wonderbras – uplifting, supportive and making each other look bigger and better”. I say men can be human Wonderbras too!