Unless they expressly point out something they want, it’s not always easy to buy a suitable present for a friend or family member. Nevertheless, there are some gifts that are relatively safe bets regardless of the occasion.
Buying a gift is easy. The hard work lies in finding something the recipient actually wants. Occasion-based gifts are, more often than not, useless. A Christmas tie, a Valentine’s Day heart-shaped cushion – nobody really wants these things.
Instead, seek out information about the intended recipient. Discover what they like and dislike and make an informed decision. A thoughtful gift tailored to a person’s preferences will make them happy and speaks volumes about the giver.
Food
Regardless of their figure, or lack thereof, everyone has to eat. Tailor the food item to the person and it can make the perfect gift. For example, buy some raw chocolate for the eco-minded person or a kosher food hamper for a Jewish person.
Drink
This doesn’t necessarily have to mean alcohol – check whether the recipient drinks or not first. If they have a favoured tipple, then indulge it. A fine bottle of wine, a good single malt whisky or even locally sourced ale will inevitably be well received. For non-drinkers, some quality coffee or an unusual selection of teas can prove appropriate.
Experience
One of the most modern developments in the gift world is the rise of the activity or ‘experience’ voucher. These enable the recipient to enjoy an array of once-in-a-lifetime experiences that range from racing supercars to bungee jumping. Those unsure about the particular tastes of the recipient are able to buy open vouchers that enable them to make the choice.
Clothes
This comes with a number of caveats. Don’t impose your own taste on others. Ideally, find out from someone else what the recipient is hankering after and buy it for them.
Hobby-related
Everyone has a hobby, however small. Buying something related to it is a considerate present. Make sure however that it’s useful. For example, a sailor will appreciate some good quality rope, but will be less likely to appreciate socks with a picture of a boat on them.
Time
Most people would like more time to do the things they like doing. Give your time as a gift. Take on some of their chores or find someone else to. If they have kids, offer to babysit. If they’re too busy to cook, take them out for a meal. Draw the line at doing their accounts.
Luxury items
Indulgent items that cannot be rationally justified are often the best gifts. Carry out some research beforehand to ensure that the investment isn’t wasted.
Money
The classic cheque in the post always goes down well, and allows the recipient to buy something they truly want. For an unusual take on the idea, buy some stocks or shares in an area the recipient is interested in.
Gift card
A more personalised take on the money idea is to buy a gift card. Ideally, find out where the recipient likes to shop first. If that’s not possible, opt for somewhere that sells a variety of goods, such as a department store.
Request
The most obvious solution to the present buying quandary is to ask the person what he or she would like. Not everyone likes surprises. Many actively dislike them – especially when it comes to presents.
Resource Box:
10 of the worst gift gaffes.
50 best gifts for men.
100+ gifts for women.
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